Let’s Talk About Addiction

      This article was first published on my new blog spot at addiction.com     I’m the mother of a drug addict. I can’t tell how long it took me to say those words. I’m grateful beyond description that Annie has now achieved sustained recovery, but when in active addiction, the word “addict” didn’t really roll […]

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Jail… the Ultimate Time Out for Addiction

“Mom! You’ve got to get me out of here!” I remember my daughter saying exactly this the very first time she was booked into our county jail. Heartsick that her meth addiction had come to this, I wrestled with what to do. I wanted to fix things for Annie, and help right her wrongs. Isn’t […]

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Podcast: Addiction in “A Very Fine House”

I recently had the pleasure of being interviewed by Dave Cooke at 100 Pedals. This is a nonprofit organization providing educational support and resources for parents and families with loved ones in the throes of addiction. Dave is also author of Behind the Dumpster, a memoir about his journey through his son’s heroin addiction. Dave and I talked about […]

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National #DrugFacts Week

    This next week is National #DrugFacts Week. Sponsored by the National Institute on Drug Abuse (NIDA), this is a movement to raise awareness about drugs of abuse. And you’re in for some surprises. Please follow me on Facebook, Twitter or Pinterest as I post #drugfacts each day. Please share what you learn within […]

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Empty Seat At The Table

For most of us, the Holidays are steeped in warmth and tradition, and are spent sharing meals and exchanging gifts with family and friends. Yet for those of us who love a child in the throes of addiction, this time of year is often a source of pain. We grieve the child, or children who […]

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Drug Court – Rehabilitation Not Incarceration

I recently had the pleasure of speaking at our local Family Drug Court Graduation ceremony. With a demanding speaking schedule earlier in the day, I arrived at the Deschutes County Courthouse frazzled and anxious. But as the gallery filled with the friends and families of the graduates, some of whom I knew, my anxiety yielded […]

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Legalize marijuana in Oregon? Don’t Jump!

My beautiful Oregon is now at the jumping off point and facing the abyss of one of the greatest social experiments of the past century. Voters will soon decide the fate of Measure 91 and whether or not marijuana, currently a controlled substance, can join the ranks of legalized free enterprise. Worry pounds in my […]

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Recovering From Meth Addiction, Annie Answers the Burning Questions

I sat down with my daughter recently, and asked her some of the burning questions about addiction that we all want answers to. Annie is now thirty-one and eight years in recovery. Not a drink or a drug in all that time. In view of the obvious risks involved, people are curious why anyone initiates drug […]

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“A Very Fine House” Releases!

Barbara Cofer Stoefen and her daughter, Annie, at the Barnes and Noble release of “A Very Fine House: A Mother’s Story of Love, Faith and Crystal Meth.” Annie is now 8 years clean and this is her mother’s story of how they BOTH recovered. There is hope. There is recovery.

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Hope for Addicts

I’m part of a community of moms who support one another. Maybe you are too. There are so many different kinds of support groups for moms. We have play groups for our toddlers, girl’s night out, cooking groups, hiking and book clubs, gym buddies, diet clubs and Bible studies. Over the years I’ve been in […]

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